Advice to Grand children
My darlings
Your Biggest Asset is yourself. Polish this asset. And a very valuable component of this asset is your mind, nourish it, don't let it be cluttered with negatives-control it, don't allow yourself to be controlled by it.
Be yourself.
There is something that you can do better than any other. You are special and unique; Accept and embrace your uniqueness Original is always better and has more worth than a copy. If you know who you are, you can have more flexibility in what you decide to do, and clearer about what not to do.
Don't compare yourself with anyone.
If you compare, you are insulting yourself. You are Unique. you are a nature? greatest miracle. There never has been, nor ever will be, anyone exactly like you, you are endowed with remarkable potential abilities that you can develop to perform extraordinarily well-no one can do it? your uniqueness lies in it. Every successful person has a painful story. And every painful story has a successful ending. Accept the pain and get ready for success. As Napoleon Hill said ―Nothing can bring you success but yourself― Sense of worth and self-confidence comes when you accept yourself as you are. Not when you are trying to be what other people expect.
Follow these steps
1. To march on the path of success you have to know what you are it is the starting point?
2. Knowing the starting point will enable you to navigate to the Next Destination, what you want to be i.e., decide what you want. As Arthur Ashe says you can't hit a target you can't see ―Start where you are. Use what you have. "Do what you can" this is your vision statement
3. Now proceed to Strategize how to fill the gap between the Starting point and destination.
Remember -- Vision is critical and Strategy is crucial
In implementation of this scheme of things you will face many deterrents but don't get bogged down.
Be Fearless ―
The only thing we have to fear is the fear itself- ―so said President Roosevelt
But you
Do not Fear the Fear. Fear pulls you back from doing what you wish to do. It tempts you to give up. Don't fall prey to this temptation ? Realize that when you feel like giving up, it may just be that you are a few inches away from your winning destination.
Develop an attitude of ―feel the fear and do it anyway
Your destiny is too great, your assignment is too important, your time too valuable. Don't let fear intimidate you- Joel Osteen
Learn to let go Don't Give up
Some of us think holding on makes us strong‟ but sometimes it is letting go?? says Hermann Hesse in his book Reflections
Learn to let go
If you do let go it will help you freeing yourself from the fear and from something trivial and insignificant that is blocking your way. You unshackle the fear that has gripped you. Letting go removes the block. It liberates from the fetters of fear. Letting go is self-care. Learn Not to Give Up; Don't hold on to the past
Giving up means you are allowing fear to limit your opportunities. Don't give up means you are free from the fetters of FEAR; You have unshackled it and fear no longer will pull you back and your life progress will not be restricted.
Giving up is self-defeat-Get rid of these Negatives. Giving up means you are stuck Don?t get stuck It means you are selling yourself short. Don?t sell yourself short. Don't Give UP as Babe Ruth says "You just can't beat the person who never gives up."
Be confident in what you do.
There may be tough times, but the difficulties which you face will make you more determined to achieve your objectives and to win against all the odds.
Success is not measured by what you accomplish, but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.
When things start getting tough, it is the starting point for success;
it is not a sign to quit Self Belief and Hard work will bring you success.
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