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He had once thought it was strange to have a friend you'd never met. Now it was even stranger losing a friend you'd never really had.
- Tad williams

Sometimes you meet a person, and you click! You are so comfortable with them as if you have known them your whole life. You need not be anything. You can be just you!



Have you ever played "find a way" as a child? How ecstatic you used to feel when you found the way finally? This is the same way I felt when I met her once as if sailing in the same boat. We both had our different dream plans, our lifestyles were also different.... But that's what makes us "the friends.... Across distance, forever together." We instantly got connected as lost friends.
After that single meet, we knew each other inside out.

I don't say a thing but everything I expect from her is right here by my side.
I'm only me when I'm with her....
I don't hide my tears, my secrets or my deepest fears....
I'm only up when she is not down...
And I don't want to fly high if she is still on the ground...

I had learnt to make a home inside my own head... Where you can find only her memories, her love, which goes along whereever I journey. 

A part of my prayers belongs to her.

A portion of my heart belongs to her and carries the essence of our friendship.

It may not sound anything exceptional, many people have long distance relationships or friendships. But for someone like me, it feels so satisfying. It feels surreal that someone out is there, to hear me at any hour of the day. She has become an integral part of my life. She is an amazing soul, no words would ever describe her. She has changed my life for better but still she cannot be my better-half.

Some relations are not meant to be together, and require loose ends. We share a beautiful chemistry. We can be just ourselves, without any fear of losing each other. There is a crystal clear understanding between us, and  we don't  even have to make it complicated.

Some relationships don't need years to grow. Some just come into your life and stay till eternity. I have been through my darkest phase of life, and would have surely fallen like pack of cards, if I wouldn't have met her. She heard me when I needed the most and stayed with me, when everything else was driving me insane. I cherish each and every moment of my life with her.... distance is never the factor as long as we are connected.

We are looking forward to our type of meet/date some day with two cappuccinos!! 😊


Post updated on:  Aug 12, 2021 5:41:52 PM

ART OF PERSONAL EXCELLENCE

The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts. Improvement is the basis of evolution. When someone is looking for self-improvement it means to believe that nothing under the Sun is perfect. There is always room for improvement. We all wish to change our lives for betterment. We always do find the chance to improve and change it. And again once we get a chance we are puzzled how to start and how to make a change. The most successful people are always looking for ways to improve. They are not satisfied with accepting their shortcomings or resting on their laurels. Top achievers put time and energy into being their best self.

I would say from my personal experience, no matter who you are, how old you are, or your circumstances right now. Self-development allows you to be happier day by day and live life in the way you want to.

SELF DEVELOPMENT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE---

Growth in yourself eventually leads you to new opportunities. All you need to focus on your lifestyle. Start implementing the things which you learn in your life. Focus on self-improvement----by reading good articles, blogs, books on personal development.

Do not use your energy to worry, use your energy to believe. Self-confidence leads to Self - esteem. All you need to believe in yourself and follow your dreams. Always keep motivating yourself which will in turn push you to reach your goals.

Self-improvement helps you become a better version of yourself. Whether to improve in your job, your business, your relationships. You have to constantly look at what you can improve; you have to grow into the person who is ready to change. Personal development is vital to your success.

THE MOST EFFECTIVE WAYS TO IMPROVE YOURSELF------

Always have a reliable company around you to judge and guide you towards your improvement path.

Reading is the best choice when it comes to growth and improvement.

Identify your blind spots.

Overcome your fears.

Acknowledge your flaws.

Always challenge yourself and have healthy competition.

Learn from people who inspire you.

Learn to deal with difficult people whom you can't avoid.

Always try to avoid negative people.

Cultivate a new habit and quit a bad habit.

Let go of the past and focus on the future.

Get a mentor or coach if you find it difficult to lead your journey of improvement.

Take a break.

Always meditate and exercise.

Life never seems to be the way we want it,

but we live it the best way we can.

There is no perfect life,

but we can always fill it with perfect moments.

BEYOND THE POINT, Let us be a Player in life who runs for the goal.....and not a Referee who looks for the faults. Always recognize that your fears reflect areas where you can grow. Shake your routine up and do something different. Being too comfortable doesn't help us grow, it makes us stagnate. 

Post updated on:  Aug 11, 2021 11:06:48 AM


No hi. No hello. Essentially no greeting. The messages right away begin with to-do tasks. Our love notes over a decade relationship have matured as much as our relationship has. I guess if someone happens to get a sneak-peek at the text messages shared between us, they may as well have a whale of a time laughing over us. That's how the story of this 'lovey-dovey' couple goes( oh yeah, it's us)!!

Washing liquid-3 ltrs

Milk low fat-2 ltrs

Vegetables and fruits

Rava - 1 kg

Whole wheat bread - 1 full

And the list goes on.....

A message notification rings shrilly on another phone put on charge in the bedroom.

 Is it you? The husband calls out from the room.

Yes, I have added few more items in the list you sent, I replied.

A usual weekend morning begins with the list, just before our mischievous kids wake up for the day.

Every weekend, I have the habit of checking the kitchen supplies, right before I delve into the cooking session. What items has to be stocked up and to be brought right away? And this notes are not on any paper, but the SMS or what's up messages conveniently sent to the husband and vice-versa too.

Oh I forgot to add pulses in the list... Tanmay. I announced checking the contents of the container. 

Is there anything new I heard, don't make me run to the store everytime you find your dabba empty.... Husband remarks with a frown!

How could you say that, you are the only one missing on something or the other on the list I share, and run to the supermarket again the next day to buy it. 

That's why I tell you to accompany me Tara. He scowls back at me, types out a text and sends it to me, my phone beeped with the notification of  message - - - 'pulses- moong dal 1kg,   toor dal-1kg    etc.

No dinner tables booked. No candle lights arranged. No romantic setup. No gaudy outfits. No extra ordinary ambience.

As our relationship graduates to a certain degree of maturity, even our dates are metamorphosesd to ones that are quick and useful and most of the times it turn out to be a grocery shopping expedition.

Since the onset of the pandemic, Tanmay has been the one who makes rapid outings to the supermarket to get our weekly essentials.
The other day also happened same... Tanmay as usual looked upon deals and value packs and hunted out all the items mentioned in the list.

Once he stepped into the house.... Arey suno...
Why did you bring 2 packs of Rava... I only mentioned one.

When will you understand? I have to look for best offers.....

Arey but I don't have extra place to store.

When you ladies have extra space to fit anything..... Jab dekho jagah nahi hai!!

Even the good nights have been turned out as reminders.....
Acha suno, today the item list was so lengthy, I deliberately did not mention for washroom supplies - please don't forget to bring the dettol and harpic... 2 bottles each. Was there any offer on that? Have you noticed today?

Do you really care for deals... Tara? How many bottles you use up in a single month?

Wife always has the last say in the discussion, doesn't she? So, I replied back saying... Proportionate to the number of times you use washroom in a month, goodnight and please don't forget to make a note of it in your list.

Thus our love notes are filled with grocery items, we share lot of messages in a week back and forth.

And I believe this is the true story of every couple.... Love does not fade by the time, but it takes a new form!! 😉






Post updated on:  Aug 9, 2021 7:03:17 PM

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